16 June 2008

Love and Marriage

2 comments:

42towels said...

I really don't think there's any argument against gay marriage that doesn't incorporate religion into it somehow. There's no reason to put a ban on it, for the same reason you shouldn't ban anything else. It's a choice, and people deserve the same human rights universally, whether gay or straight or black white male female whatever. When I press people who are not religious about the gay marriage thing, the answer is always, "I just don't like it." When people finally stop assuming that the universe has to coincide with their predispositions about how everything should work, the world will be a better place.

EliRivers said...

Many states get out of the 'discrimination' stigma by asserting that gays in same-sex unions can go through various legal channels to achieve the same 'rights' as male-female unions. Unfortunately, several rights are unachievable (health insurance coverage for one; though one partner's insurance may cover a 'spouse,' it would not cover a same-sex partner), and those that are possible can rack up tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees to actually put them into effect, instead of a $35-$42 (Las Vegas) marriage licensee fee. This also effectively requires the same sex couple to carry around documented proof of their legal battle for emergency situations, where a 'wife' or 'husband' in a heterosexual partnership would rarely need proof of their rights as spouses (we'll get to the "spouse" status in a minute).

As for the religious connotation associated with marriage, the government has an answer for that too, one that satisfies separation of church and state (and state and church). According to US Code Title 1, Chapter 1 § 7; the term "marriage" is recognized as a "legal union" between a man and a woman; effectively, the state only recognizes the civil union portion of the "marriage." It also defines "spouse" as a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or a wife (http://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/1/7.html)